Nowadays,ıt is a popular event to marry someone from dıfferent natıon.This habit is becoming common in Turkey.In the past,people approached this task negatıvely.However;the world is changing and opinions are also changing.Once time we did not belive Galileo who came up with a opınıon that the world was turnıng.However ;now,we are not surprısed when ıt is said that a holiday in the moon will come to real.Like that,marrying someone from another culture doesnt make us feel peculiar.We feel that it is a usual experience. According to me,it is exactly wrong owing to the some reasons..
Even when you go abroad as a tourıst, everythıng is strange to you, habit of eating and talking, custom of their life,all things..You think that you can marry someone from another culture which includes these differencies.The man whom you are marrying,from other culture,has been grow up ın thıs culture and also his character is shaped by according to his tradition and his nation's life-style.No matter what he does,he is certainly influenced by his culture.According to place where he lives,he sits,talks,eats and the most important is that he thinks.In this point,I can say that manny marriages are ending up firstly because of opposite ideas in the world.Couples think and act differently from each other.If it is so,debating and discussing will be inevitable and soon, the divorce will also be indispensable ..
There are many reasons like that for example language.You learn that his language but you do not learn and understand what he means exactly everytime.Another reason is religious.The man may be christian and you may be a muslim.In the first times,both are very kind and tactful.In the house, there is a democratic atmosphere but later,one of coupless(husband or wife) trys to be loved his or her own religion. Another reason is national identity..You are Turkish and your husband is a German. Even in a match between these countrıes, a debate can break out..
Some supporter of this idea that marrying someone from another culture is right, think that all these problems can be solved ıf couples love eachother but love is limited and the most important thing is logic..
Briefly marrying is difficult experience and marriying someone from different culture or nation is more difficult than the usual marrıages. You thınk that thousand times before such kind of marriages.. You should not thınk only one perspective.,you should act according to both your heart and your logic...
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I like your essay you wrote effectively,but you could give many examples.Therefore it would be more effective essay:)
ReplyDeletevery good essay.You explained your ideas succesfully.congrulations:)
ReplyDeleteI am very affected to your essay,really. you used to some quotion(galileo)
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