He swears angrily the light of the sun coming from the window that he left opened unconsciously last night. Whatever he does, the brightness of the sunlight affects him and forces to wake up out of large and also wide bed that smells the perspiration of his body but the time is very early. He catches a glimpse of room from the little space of his eyes. The room is nearly empty and silent deadly. However, there are some little bottle of alcohol whose taste are awful and burned cigarettes around the bed. The room is also covered with the heavy atmosphere even if there is fresh air coming from the opened window. In every step of room, it smells beverage, the food left over from last night and the socks under the bed…
He stands and starts to walk to kitchen to make a coffee which makes him feel better. While he is walking, he stops in front of the mirror looking his face and remembers her . Suddenly, he feels upset thinking how much he misses her. He wants to only her repeating her name silently like a prayer. Turning the room, he comes to kitchen and prepares the coffee unwillingly as always. He thinks again it is very early and gets angry about his unendurable headache due to so much drinking alcohol. Besides coffee, he takes an aspirin thinking that it will reduce his ache and decides to go bed for a short sleep after swallowing the pill with coffee that he made few seconds ago.
He lies down the bed, his only friend, and thinks he green eyes like a leave. His heart is hurting and he wants to cry loudly but he knows “ in vain.” Saying to himself “Now, she is somewhere maybe near another man, maybe a bed with another love” but goes on imaginating her repeatedly and desperately. In the darkness of the night, he wants to smell her wonderful hair that takes him to the beache but suddenly everyhing starts to shake. The Picture on the wall falls down and the others… There is an unbelievable noise and finally the darkness…
At this time, there is a woman with green eyes like a leave, sleeps with the photo taken with a man in a beach .However, they will never wake up out of bed and they will never know what she or he is doing at that time or whether they are thinking each other or not.The mystery will remain its silence forever…
Saturday, 6 November 2010
USAGE OF NONCONVENTIONAL MEDICINE
If we ask you, what is the most important thing that you should have in the world? The general answer is mostly to be healthy; therefore people have been using many kinds of treatments for their health since the beginning of history. Beside conventional medicine, many ways that we call nonconventional or alternative medicine to cure health problems has evolved for hundreds years. According to a survey, even prehistoric men used plants for therapeutic purpose and since then nonconventional medicine in other words complementary medicine has been popular all over the world. Today there are more than a hundred different treatments in the world. The reason of that nonconventional medicine take so much interest is that people sometimes are not able to find any remedy for their health problems and they resort to alternative medicine. I think conventional medicine is not always perfect to solve the problems of patients and people should try some alternative ways to heal their sickness on condition that under the consultation and if doing that comes to us logically, trying to find any useful thing is more beneficial than sitting waiting the death.
Nonconventional medicine, also named alternative medicine, is based on the belief that includes body, soul, emotions and spirit. Alternative medicine’s aim is not limited with the treating illnesses, it also focus on improving the quality of life; therefore it shouldn’t be assessed in terms of only one side that treating the illnesses. Usage of nonconventional medicine can be extended from illness to stress with the methods of alternative medicine including acupuncture, ayurveda, hypnotherapy…There are many pleased people with the using alternative medicine that is based on traditional and natural methods. Nonconventional medicine is composed of many years experience; therefore it is trustable. For example; according to our culture when somebody has a low tension, it is advised to drink salty ayran. I have witnessed many people whose tensions turn to normal degree when they drink it. It shows that alternative medicine has a good effect on people.
All over the world, there have been many nations and culture since ancient times and nearly all of culture have nonconventional medicine systems many of which were developed before the conventional medicine. Well, when the conventional medicine did not exist, how did people cure their illnesses? I am sure that they could heal their health problems with alternative medicine. In addition, every culture has complementary medicine from eastern cultures where it is widespread to western cultures. If people didn’t see any good effect of alternative medicine, why would nearly all of culture develop and use alternative medical treatment? The most effective example is Aborigine community. As far as I remember from the book that I read some years ago about the interesting life of Aborigines, they cure their illnesses only with alternative medicine. They use herbal methods because they live out of mass community, city life and technology and also they have never chance to see a doctor even if their illness is so serious. However; Aborigines are still alive…
The people, against nonconventional medicine, support that alternative medical treatment has side effects. However; if alternative medicine is practiced skillfully, it has no side effects and also complementary medicine consists of natural substances, it doesn’t include any chemical substances. However, all over the world, there are many alternative medicine centers, but sometimes especially in U.S.A they can be quack and the product that the quack has advised might be fake and has dangerous side effects .Their aim is to gain money using the Hopelessness of patient. We should be careful and we should consult the expert in his section. In addition most people think that nonconventional medicine has less side effect than conventional medicine. People, against alternative medicine, again support that nonconventional medicine is not beneficial. They are unproven and traditional methods. However; the conventional medicine has accepted the existence of and effectiveness of nonconventional medicine methods. For example; hypnotherapy, a method of nonconventional medicine, is used now in a field of conventional medicine.
In conclusion, If we have an illness, we absolutely see a doctor because science of conventional medicine has so developed that we can also trust it but when we cannot find any solution, we can try nonconventional medicine as alternative way but carefully because one out of ten people who uses a quack’s products is hurt in some ways. If we don’t want to be hurt ,we should be alerted. I agree with the advocates of nonconventional medicine that it is beneficial for us and finally according to me, we should combine conventional medicine and nonconventional medicine because if there is only one, either nonconventional or conventional, it must be illogical.
If we ask you, what is the most important thing that you should have in the world? The general answer is mostly to be healthy; therefore people have been using many kinds of treatments for their health since the beginning of history. Beside conventional medicine, many ways that we call nonconventional or alternative medicine to cure health problems has evolved for hundreds years. According to a survey, even prehistoric men used plants for therapeutic purpose and since then nonconventional medicine in other words complementary medicine has been popular all over the world. Today there are more than a hundred different treatments in the world. The reason of that nonconventional medicine take so much interest is that people sometimes are not able to find any remedy for their health problems and they resort to alternative medicine. I think conventional medicine is not always perfect to solve the problems of patients and people should try some alternative ways to heal their sickness on condition that under the consultation and if doing that comes to us logically, trying to find any useful thing is more beneficial than sitting waiting the death.
Nonconventional medicine, also named alternative medicine, is based on the belief that includes body, soul, emotions and spirit. Alternative medicine’s aim is not limited with the treating illnesses, it also focus on improving the quality of life; therefore it shouldn’t be assessed in terms of only one side that treating the illnesses. Usage of nonconventional medicine can be extended from illness to stress with the methods of alternative medicine including acupuncture, ayurveda, hypnotherapy…There are many pleased people with the using alternative medicine that is based on traditional and natural methods. Nonconventional medicine is composed of many years experience; therefore it is trustable. For example; according to our culture when somebody has a low tension, it is advised to drink salty ayran. I have witnessed many people whose tensions turn to normal degree when they drink it. It shows that alternative medicine has a good effect on people.
All over the world, there have been many nations and culture since ancient times and nearly all of culture have nonconventional medicine systems many of which were developed before the conventional medicine. Well, when the conventional medicine did not exist, how did people cure their illnesses? I am sure that they could heal their health problems with alternative medicine. In addition, every culture has complementary medicine from eastern cultures where it is widespread to western cultures. If people didn’t see any good effect of alternative medicine, why would nearly all of culture develop and use alternative medical treatment? The most effective example is Aborigine community. As far as I remember from the book that I read some years ago about the interesting life of Aborigines, they cure their illnesses only with alternative medicine. They use herbal methods because they live out of mass community, city life and technology and also they have never chance to see a doctor even if their illness is so serious. However; Aborigines are still alive…
The people, against nonconventional medicine, support that alternative medical treatment has side effects. However; if alternative medicine is practiced skillfully, it has no side effects and also complementary medicine consists of natural substances, it doesn’t include any chemical substances. However, all over the world, there are many alternative medicine centers, but sometimes especially in U.S.A they can be quack and the product that the quack has advised might be fake and has dangerous side effects .Their aim is to gain money using the Hopelessness of patient. We should be careful and we should consult the expert in his section. In addition most people think that nonconventional medicine has less side effect than conventional medicine. People, against alternative medicine, again support that nonconventional medicine is not beneficial. They are unproven and traditional methods. However; the conventional medicine has accepted the existence of and effectiveness of nonconventional medicine methods. For example; hypnotherapy, a method of nonconventional medicine, is used now in a field of conventional medicine.
In conclusion, If we have an illness, we absolutely see a doctor because science of conventional medicine has so developed that we can also trust it but when we cannot find any solution, we can try nonconventional medicine as alternative way but carefully because one out of ten people who uses a quack’s products is hurt in some ways. If we don’t want to be hurt ,we should be alerted. I agree with the advocates of nonconventional medicine that it is beneficial for us and finally according to me, we should combine conventional medicine and nonconventional medicine because if there is only one, either nonconventional or conventional, it must be illogical.
Monday, 25 October 2010
REVİEW OF THE FİLMS
REVİEW OF THE FİLMS
“The miracle worker” tells about Helen Keler and “Angela’s Ashes tells about Frank McCourt . What are they ? They are exactly real life story. Frank McCourt is a real writer Helen Keller is also from real life. However ıt comes to us as if they were a kind of imaginatination of our mind but no matter how we have difficulty in believing in those kind of stories, all of them are lived in somewhere of this world that we also live .Their stories are about challenges of life and their experiences that they encounter . It is the similarity between two films, The Miracle Worker and and Angela ‘s Ashes . . Unlike the other people, they are born with some obstacles and difficulties. These difficulties are poorness,, hungriness also cold weather, ıt is always rainy ın the film of Angela’s Ashes and ın The Miracle Worker difficulties change . there is no poorness but there is an obstacle not one there is two . Deafness and blindness .Do you think that you are both deaf and blind? If you ask me, I can not even imagine.Another similarity is determinizm reflected by Frank McCourt and Helen Keler . They are like activist that take part in social life with their perseverance and other features. The other similarity of these two films is the being strong,smart, ambitious of the characters . Why are they so ambitious and willingly to overcome their obstacles. They can be passive and accept the situation then they might go on their life so. However they choose fighting. They are ambitious because they think that they have right tol ive beter.The last similarity between two films is that the characters –Helen Keler and Frank McCourt- is be able to reach their aim and succeed in spite of all changes that they face. It is not easy as seem. While I was watching two films, I caught on some differencies. For instance, ın the Angela’s Ashes , there are some mit that are about religion. Church, confession, regretness of the sin… In the Miracle Worker,there is not any reflection of the social life at that time. The Miracle Worker is apart from the outside and ıt is based on person’s emotion and feeling and also ın the miracle worker there is somebody who helps Helen to learn everything from eating to sitting and make her understand the world by touching with her fingers. The message of two films that we shouldnt sit in the chair with the obstacles that turns the lights of our life into dark. We are talented at least only a part of life and we can be succesful in this part. Even if you are handicapped, even ıf you can not find any bread to eat ,there is always a chance for all people. The most important thing is not to lose of our believe in our heart . Finally, “Angela’s Ashes” is more effective and more beautiful than “The Miracle Worker “ because Angela’s ashes has more perspective of some subjects that are seen than the other film. In the miracle worker the seen that has an impression and give the message to reader is limited andı f we asses the film in terms of esthetic, Angela’s Ashes is more colourful and more effective. Angela’s ashes is the compose of many feelings. However both of them worth watching…
“The miracle worker” tells about Helen Keler and “Angela’s Ashes tells about Frank McCourt . What are they ? They are exactly real life story. Frank McCourt is a real writer Helen Keller is also from real life. However ıt comes to us as if they were a kind of imaginatination of our mind but no matter how we have difficulty in believing in those kind of stories, all of them are lived in somewhere of this world that we also live .Their stories are about challenges of life and their experiences that they encounter . It is the similarity between two films, The Miracle Worker and and Angela ‘s Ashes . . Unlike the other people, they are born with some obstacles and difficulties. These difficulties are poorness,, hungriness also cold weather, ıt is always rainy ın the film of Angela’s Ashes and ın The Miracle Worker difficulties change . there is no poorness but there is an obstacle not one there is two . Deafness and blindness .Do you think that you are both deaf and blind? If you ask me, I can not even imagine.Another similarity is determinizm reflected by Frank McCourt and Helen Keler . They are like activist that take part in social life with their perseverance and other features. The other similarity of these two films is the being strong,smart, ambitious of the characters . Why are they so ambitious and willingly to overcome their obstacles. They can be passive and accept the situation then they might go on their life so. However they choose fighting. They are ambitious because they think that they have right tol ive beter.The last similarity between two films is that the characters –Helen Keler and Frank McCourt- is be able to reach their aim and succeed in spite of all changes that they face. It is not easy as seem. While I was watching two films, I caught on some differencies. For instance, ın the Angela’s Ashes , there are some mit that are about religion. Church, confession, regretness of the sin… In the Miracle Worker,there is not any reflection of the social life at that time. The Miracle Worker is apart from the outside and ıt is based on person’s emotion and feeling and also ın the miracle worker there is somebody who helps Helen to learn everything from eating to sitting and make her understand the world by touching with her fingers. The message of two films that we shouldnt sit in the chair with the obstacles that turns the lights of our life into dark. We are talented at least only a part of life and we can be succesful in this part. Even if you are handicapped, even ıf you can not find any bread to eat ,there is always a chance for all people. The most important thing is not to lose of our believe in our heart . Finally, “Angela’s Ashes” is more effective and more beautiful than “The Miracle Worker “ because Angela’s ashes has more perspective of some subjects that are seen than the other film. In the miracle worker the seen that has an impression and give the message to reader is limited andı f we asses the film in terms of esthetic, Angela’s Ashes is more colourful and more effective. Angela’s ashes is the compose of many feelings. However both of them worth watching…
Wednesday, 26 May 2010
MY MAGICAL PLACE(REVISED DESCRIPTION)
When summer comes,I always go to my hometown,named Bahce in Osmaniye with my family.Since my childhood,I have always loved this town and I have always looked forward to going there . For me,it is the purest place I have ever seen.I experienced many childhood memory. I had many friends that I have kept up with even now.Also, There are not many buildings and fabrics,ıt remains ıts nature and ıt protects ıtself from human beings as ıt was when I was a child.
Bahce is a hidden heaven with clear air and heavy forest.It is very green as if ıt is painted with a green colour.Besides that,there are many river from little to big and every river has a little and wooden bridge which is made by human hands.Once a time,I took my photo in one of the bridges which is near my house.When I go to there I see that everything in that photo is the same now.. colours, the bridge and the river...
There are some fish farm where fısh are fed and sold,especıally trout,in Bahce.It is very popular habit on the grounds that some people often come there for a fish farm as a tourist or visitor to see the fısh in their habitat and eat the fısh whose taste are delicious and marvellous with specıal salad which is prepared with specıal sauce.Bahce is also famous for ıts pure water and there is no lime in them some waters are sold for all over Turkey for instance,Bahcepınar water is the number one in the Mediterrian region and this water’s fabric is in Bekdemir of Bahce.
Bahce’s nature is never destroyed.even there is a mill which has been kept alive for years.I remember my grandfather while he was going to this mill. Sometimes he took me thereand I remembered also that I watched everything very carefully..There are some farmer and local people who go there for their business .It has old houses whıch were built along time ago from the wooden or stone.These old houses used to protect people from hot.There are few people who live in these old houses.Some people who live there have some cows and sheep, some people cultıvate wheat and corn.They go on their life with them.
Briefly,Bahce is such a magıcal place that ıt fascınates you immediately with both nature and people.In Bahçe, everything is as if nobody lived there. Nature and environment has been the same since my childhood. Thats why I love this town. It is my pure place.In winter months,I miss Bahçe very much,I advise you to go and see there.After that,you will understand ıt is unbelievable..
Bahce is a hidden heaven with clear air and heavy forest.It is very green as if ıt is painted with a green colour.Besides that,there are many river from little to big and every river has a little and wooden bridge which is made by human hands.Once a time,I took my photo in one of the bridges which is near my house.When I go to there I see that everything in that photo is the same now.. colours, the bridge and the river...
There are some fish farm where fısh are fed and sold,especıally trout,in Bahce.It is very popular habit on the grounds that some people often come there for a fish farm as a tourist or visitor to see the fısh in their habitat and eat the fısh whose taste are delicious and marvellous with specıal salad which is prepared with specıal sauce.Bahce is also famous for ıts pure water and there is no lime in them some waters are sold for all over Turkey for instance,Bahcepınar water is the number one in the Mediterrian region and this water’s fabric is in Bekdemir of Bahce.
Bahce’s nature is never destroyed.even there is a mill which has been kept alive for years.I remember my grandfather while he was going to this mill. Sometimes he took me thereand I remembered also that I watched everything very carefully..There are some farmer and local people who go there for their business .It has old houses whıch were built along time ago from the wooden or stone.These old houses used to protect people from hot.There are few people who live in these old houses.Some people who live there have some cows and sheep, some people cultıvate wheat and corn.They go on their life with them.
Briefly,Bahce is such a magıcal place that ıt fascınates you immediately with both nature and people.In Bahçe, everything is as if nobody lived there. Nature and environment has been the same since my childhood. Thats why I love this town. It is my pure place.In winter months,I miss Bahçe very much,I advise you to go and see there.After that,you will understand ıt is unbelievable..
CAUSES OF INSOMNIA( FİFTH PARAGRAPH CAUSE AND EFFECT ESSAY)
In today’s world , there is nearly nobody who has any ilness and problem. However; the most common ilness in our era is sleeplessness named insomnia. This ilness can be seen in every person from young to old and nowadays the number of people that have difficulty in sleeping is increasing day by day. Why people can not sleep? There are many causes but there are three main reasons that contribute to insomnia. Stres, some ilnesses and some drugs.
Firstly, the most important cause of insomnia is stres that affects us negatively. It is inevitable that we can escape from the stressor .Even daily hassles can be stressor in our life for instance waiting in the line may be a stressor for us and all of stressors might lead to insomnia.when you have a problem, you always think that problem and you can not sleep comfortly.For example, unemployed people may not sleep well on the grounds that they have many economical problems.They always think about these problems so this leads to stress.Also students can have insomnia. before the exam week they may not sleep well because of stres.
Secondly, some serious illnesses such as mıgrain, ulcer, cancer can cause insomnia. Headaches in our brain prevent us from sleeping. It can increase the pain and we can not sleep. When we have some serious ilnesses, Physcologically we are under a great deal of pressure thats why ıt can cause insomnia. For example, people who have cancer may not sleep easily because of their illnesses.They suffer from cancer and they always think about their health..Therefore, some serious illnesses lead to insomnia.
Lastly, people may not sleep because of drugs. Many people use drugs when they get sick, and most of these drugs have some serious side effects.One of them is insomnia, so some drugs can also affect insomnia.
In conclusion, many people ignore insomnia and they forget the importance of this illness, but it can cause many difficulties for people. If we can not sleep, we may be agressive or pessimistic. İn addition, we can not focuse on our work thats why we get tired more. Finally, needless to say that insomnia is serious case which shouldn't be taken lightly in terms of our health and our physciology. For a good sleep, we can take some precautions.May be, we can be more careful about drugs and medicines and we can be stronger against to hardships. If we can do so, we can be succesful..
Firstly, the most important cause of insomnia is stres that affects us negatively. It is inevitable that we can escape from the stressor .Even daily hassles can be stressor in our life for instance waiting in the line may be a stressor for us and all of stressors might lead to insomnia.when you have a problem, you always think that problem and you can not sleep comfortly.For example, unemployed people may not sleep well on the grounds that they have many economical problems.They always think about these problems so this leads to stress.Also students can have insomnia. before the exam week they may not sleep well because of stres.
Secondly, some serious illnesses such as mıgrain, ulcer, cancer can cause insomnia. Headaches in our brain prevent us from sleeping. It can increase the pain and we can not sleep. When we have some serious ilnesses, Physcologically we are under a great deal of pressure thats why ıt can cause insomnia. For example, people who have cancer may not sleep easily because of their illnesses.They suffer from cancer and they always think about their health..Therefore, some serious illnesses lead to insomnia.
Lastly, people may not sleep because of drugs. Many people use drugs when they get sick, and most of these drugs have some serious side effects.One of them is insomnia, so some drugs can also affect insomnia.
In conclusion, many people ignore insomnia and they forget the importance of this illness, but it can cause many difficulties for people. If we can not sleep, we may be agressive or pessimistic. İn addition, we can not focuse on our work thats why we get tired more. Finally, needless to say that insomnia is serious case which shouldn't be taken lightly in terms of our health and our physciology. For a good sleep, we can take some precautions.May be, we can be more careful about drugs and medicines and we can be stronger against to hardships. If we can do so, we can be succesful..
Sunday, 23 May 2010
MY MAGICAL PLACE(REVISED OF DESCRIPTION)
When summer comes,I always go to my hometown,named Bahce in Osmaniye with my family.Since my childhood,I have always loved this town and I have always looked forward to going there . For me,it is the purest place I have ever seen.I experienced many childhood memory. I had many friends that I have kept up with even now.Also, There are not many buildings and fabrics,ıt remains ıts nature and ıt protects ıtself from human beings as ıt was when I was a child.
Bahce is a hidden heaven with clear air and heavy forest.It is very green as if ıt is painted with a green colour.Besides that,there are many river from little to big and every river has a little and wooden bridge which is made by human hands.Once a time,I took my photo in one of the bridges which is near my house.When I go to there I see that everything in that photo is the same now.. colours, the bridge and the river...
There are some fish farm where fısh are fed and sold,especıally trout,in Bahce.It is very popular habit on the grounds that some people often come there for a fish farm as a tourist or visitor to see the fısh in their habitat and eat the fısh whose taste are delicious and marvellous with specıal salad which is prepared with specıal sauce.Bahce is also famous for ıts pure water and there is no lime in them some waters are sold for all over Turkey for instance,Bahcepınar water is the number one in the Mediterrian region and this water’s fabric is in Bekdemir of Bahce.
Bahce’s nature is never destroyed.even there is a mill which has been kept alive for years.I remember my grandfather while he was going to this mill. Sometimes he took me thereand I remembered also that I watched everything very carefully..There are some farmer and local people who go there for their business .It has old houses whıch were built along time ago from the wooden or stone.These old houses used to protect people from hot.There are few people who live in these old houses.Some people who live there have some cows and sheep, some people cultıvate wheat and corn.They go on their life with them.
Briefly,Bahce is such a magıcal place that ıt fascınates you immediately with both nature and people.In Bahçe, everything is as if nobody lived there. Nature and environment has been the same since my childhood. Thats why I love this town. It is my pure place.In winter months,I miss Bahçe very much,I advise you to go and see there.After that,you will understand ıt is unbelievable..
Bahce is a hidden heaven with clear air and heavy forest.It is very green as if ıt is painted with a green colour.Besides that,there are many river from little to big and every river has a little and wooden bridge which is made by human hands.Once a time,I took my photo in one of the bridges which is near my house.When I go to there I see that everything in that photo is the same now.. colours, the bridge and the river...
There are some fish farm where fısh are fed and sold,especıally trout,in Bahce.It is very popular habit on the grounds that some people often come there for a fish farm as a tourist or visitor to see the fısh in their habitat and eat the fısh whose taste are delicious and marvellous with specıal salad which is prepared with specıal sauce.Bahce is also famous for ıts pure water and there is no lime in them some waters are sold for all over Turkey for instance,Bahcepınar water is the number one in the Mediterrian region and this water’s fabric is in Bekdemir of Bahce.
Bahce’s nature is never destroyed.even there is a mill which has been kept alive for years.I remember my grandfather while he was going to this mill. Sometimes he took me thereand I remembered also that I watched everything very carefully..There are some farmer and local people who go there for their business .It has old houses whıch were built along time ago from the wooden or stone.These old houses used to protect people from hot.There are few people who live in these old houses.Some people who live there have some cows and sheep, some people cultıvate wheat and corn.They go on their life with them.
Briefly,Bahce is such a magıcal place that ıt fascınates you immediately with both nature and people.In Bahçe, everything is as if nobody lived there. Nature and environment has been the same since my childhood. Thats why I love this town. It is my pure place.In winter months,I miss Bahçe very much,I advise you to go and see there.After that,you will understand ıt is unbelievable..
A ROMANTIC NIGHT(process essay)
Suppose that you were newly married and you thought that you found the love of the life and the day was your the first anniversary of marriage. What an important day. That's why you should prepare for this day in details because ıt shows that how much you love him and how much he is precious. The best thing what to do is to make a unforgettable day. And you should begin with firstly a quite nice dinner. Why? because every man loves eating and dinners prepared by tactfully.
Firstly, you should select the list of the meals but Dont forget that meals must be special. You can cook something that you have never tried before or you can make something that you always cook but in a different way. May be with a special sauce or with a nice decoration. You should do everything by yourself. It is the most important thing that men care about.
After you choose the list of the meal and cook, you should make your table. The table must be romantic and to some extend exciting. When your husband, enters from the door, he should notice it immediately because of ıts being fascinating. When you make the table, you had better be careful about something for example: the table reflects your taste and esthetic. You can act according to that. You can use some candles which add the table more romantic atmosphere. In addition, every table has an flower. you put the flowers that you like the most. In my opinion, roses can be the most suitable for that night.
Later, you should wear smart clothes. May be you can have your hair more attractive. In addition, you can make up but do not exagerrate. You should protect your natural beauty. After all of them, you must prepare a love music which is specific for you and him. During the dinner, you can listen to it. May be you can dance with him with this song or remembering something that have a very important place in both you and your husband. Lastly, there is a very important thing that in this important day, you shouldn forget to buy a gift to your husband. It can be a clock, ıt can be a parfume. You decide it...
To sum up, the day must be really unforgettable. You can do everything for that and your husband because special people must be treated by special ways. Do not forget that all these everything are not in vain...
Firstly, you should select the list of the meals but Dont forget that meals must be special. You can cook something that you have never tried before or you can make something that you always cook but in a different way. May be with a special sauce or with a nice decoration. You should do everything by yourself. It is the most important thing that men care about.
After you choose the list of the meal and cook, you should make your table. The table must be romantic and to some extend exciting. When your husband, enters from the door, he should notice it immediately because of ıts being fascinating. When you make the table, you had better be careful about something for example: the table reflects your taste and esthetic. You can act according to that. You can use some candles which add the table more romantic atmosphere. In addition, every table has an flower. you put the flowers that you like the most. In my opinion, roses can be the most suitable for that night.
Later, you should wear smart clothes. May be you can have your hair more attractive. In addition, you can make up but do not exagerrate. You should protect your natural beauty. After all of them, you must prepare a love music which is specific for you and him. During the dinner, you can listen to it. May be you can dance with him with this song or remembering something that have a very important place in both you and your husband. Lastly, there is a very important thing that in this important day, you shouldn forget to buy a gift to your husband. It can be a clock, ıt can be a parfume. You decide it...
To sum up, the day must be really unforgettable. You can do everything for that and your husband because special people must be treated by special ways. Do not forget that all these everything are not in vain...
Thursday, 20 May 2010
MERSIN AND DENIZLI(COMPARE AND CONTRAST ESSAY)
There are two places that are very important in my life.One is Mersin where I was born and I grow up the other is Denizli where I came for my education and I will spend the rest of my time. Both places are sometimes different from each other and sometimes they are in common in some ways. However; both of them play an important role in my life
I want to begin with differences between Denizli and Mersin . Mersin has an edge to sea however; Denizli doesnt.This is the most important point that makes me miss Mersin when I am in Denizli. Because I like sea very much. Even I feel bored or lonely, I immediately go to seaside and I come to myself. It is very relaxing. The second is that Mersin is bigger than Denizli in terms of population or places that you can spend the leisure time. In Mersin there are many touristic places that draw people's attention. For example: Kız Kalesi, Cennet Cehennnem, Eshab-ı Keyf. However; when we look at Denizli, we see that Denizli's touristic places are limited.
Another differnce between Denizli and Mersin is climate. In summer Denizli has dry hot and ıt burns you.However; Mersin has humidity and ıt affects the degree of the hot. When I am in Denizli, The summer bothers me and I can not put up with. May be I am accustomed to mersin..
The other difference is the variety of people. Mersin has many people from everwhere. From Diyarbakır, From Kars but denizli hasnt variety of people like Mersin. There are many people who immigrate Mersin and ıt leads to this variety. Thats why the crime rate is higher than Denizli. Denizli is a safe city. You are comfortable when you walk in the street but İn Mersin This situation changes.
There are many similiraties like differences. When I came to Denizli, I noticed firstly, that the city's people is quite nice and helpful. One day, I asked a man who was in the street that how to go the bus garage. He didnt answer me. Instead of replying, he came with me and showed me the garage. Since that time, I love people of Denizli.Like that, Mersin's people is also very helpful and frankly.
To sum up, there are many things which are good or bad, differnces or similarities.However;Everything that I mention about can add a colour these cities.Finally, If you ask me which city is more likable, I choose Mersin. It is my love forever...
I want to begin with differences between Denizli and Mersin . Mersin has an edge to sea however; Denizli doesnt.This is the most important point that makes me miss Mersin when I am in Denizli. Because I like sea very much. Even I feel bored or lonely, I immediately go to seaside and I come to myself. It is very relaxing. The second is that Mersin is bigger than Denizli in terms of population or places that you can spend the leisure time. In Mersin there are many touristic places that draw people's attention. For example: Kız Kalesi, Cennet Cehennnem, Eshab-ı Keyf. However; when we look at Denizli, we see that Denizli's touristic places are limited.
Another differnce between Denizli and Mersin is climate. In summer Denizli has dry hot and ıt burns you.However; Mersin has humidity and ıt affects the degree of the hot. When I am in Denizli, The summer bothers me and I can not put up with. May be I am accustomed to mersin..
The other difference is the variety of people. Mersin has many people from everwhere. From Diyarbakır, From Kars but denizli hasnt variety of people like Mersin. There are many people who immigrate Mersin and ıt leads to this variety. Thats why the crime rate is higher than Denizli. Denizli is a safe city. You are comfortable when you walk in the street but İn Mersin This situation changes.
There are many similiraties like differences. When I came to Denizli, I noticed firstly, that the city's people is quite nice and helpful. One day, I asked a man who was in the street that how to go the bus garage. He didnt answer me. Instead of replying, he came with me and showed me the garage. Since that time, I love people of Denizli.Like that, Mersin's people is also very helpful and frankly.
To sum up, there are many things which are good or bad, differnces or similarities.However;Everything that I mention about can add a colour these cities.Finally, If you ask me which city is more likable, I choose Mersin. It is my love forever...
Thursday, 6 May 2010
Cosby Park (SAMPLE ESSAY)
Cosby Park
The Great Smoky Mountains is one of the most famous parks in the United States. The park is known for its beautiful mountains and streams, clean air, and frequent rain. My local part of the park is Cosby, located in the Great Smoky Mountains eighty-two miles west of the East Tennessee State University campus (www.nps.gov.grsm.prcoscg.htm). The park is a wonderful, activity-filled stop for any student wanting to get away for a few days.
The drive to Cosby passes by quickly because of all the interesting sites along the way. For example, Newport is home of the Thai Kitchen which has the best food I have ever tasted for only about $8.00 per person. The restaurant offers a variety of dishes such as chicken fried rice, spicy chicken basil fried rice, beef and broccoli and the excellent appetizers of egg rolls and crispy wontons. After stopping for dinner at the Thai Kitchen, you can travel 11 miles west to the Kyle Carver Orchard. The Kyle Carver Orchard was established in 1942 and spreads for over 75 acres. The orchard is known for its fresh cider and delicious apple pies that are fresh baked throughout the day (Heritage Tour 1). After eating your dessert at the Kyle Carver Orchard, you can travel the remaining seven miles to the park.
Cosby is nestled in a prime spot located thirty minutes from Douglas Lake, Gatlinburg, Pigeon Forge, and Dollywood. The park has a large picnic area that is known for its frequent visits by the bears that love to snack on the tourists' picnic lunches. The park also offers year-around camping with a special camping area designated for those people with horses. The park has 175 camping sites, so the camping areas are very plentiful for any student wanting to camp for a few days (www.nps.gov/grsm/prcoscg.htm).
Personally, my favorite things about the park are its hiking trails, the Low Gap and Appalachian Trails. The Low Gap hiking trail passes through the freezing Cosby Creek and continues along a beautiful scenic path. The paths are for hikers of any age because of their moderate trail grade. The paths host a variety of unusual flora and fauna including deer, snakes, and bears. In fact, I have never been on the trail without seeing a snake slithering along its path swimming in the creek.
My favorite attraction along the Low Gap Trail is the natural spring that is piped down from the mountains. Many tourists carry cups along this trail, so they can drink the fresh water bubbling directly from the earth (Heritage Tour 1). While walking the trails, a hiker needs to take along hiking boots, long pants, a raincoat, and a cup. These items are necessary for any hiker's protection and comfort in the wilderness.
After finishing the hike, campers can return to their campsite where they can roast marshmallows and enjoy the animal sounds of the surrounding forest. I would only plan to camp for a few days because of the poor conditions of the outdated restrooms. These restrooms do not have showers, electricity, flushable toilets, or any other modern day conveniences, but the beautiful foliage, hiking, and rafting still make Cosby a worthwhile site to spend a weekend.
After having a good night's sleep, a camper can wake up and put on their bathing suit and get ready for an adventure. The campers' adventure begins by walking down to the Cosby Creek to an area known as the Night Hole for its ice cold water that the sun supposedly never shines upon. Here, the water is about 12 feet deep and the pools make a great place for rock jumping. Each warm day in Cosby, you can find several groups of tourist waiting their turn to jump off the rock of their choice into the freezing water. The water is a thrilling shock after the long, hot hike to the pools. While rock jumping, a tourist needs to bring along an old pair of shoes because the rocks are sharp along the bottom of the creek bed, but this small discomfort is definitely worth the thrill. Next, a tourist should continue their adventure by making a stop at the Pigeon River Rafting Company located sixteen miles east of the park. The Pigeon River Rafting Company is a new company recently established in 1998. Here, a tourist can enjoy a three-mile rafting trip with several exciting class three and four rapids. For the more inexperienced rafter, the company provides a lazy river ride for children and the elderly where very little paddling is involved. Prices range from $15 to $40 depending on the group number and type of trip taken .
Cosby is an ideal travel location for any student wanting to escape the pressures of college for a weekend. The trip is not very expensive and has various activities such as swimming, camping, and hiking that any student would enjoy.
The Great Smoky Mountains is one of the most famous parks in the United States. The park is known for its beautiful mountains and streams, clean air, and frequent rain. My local part of the park is Cosby, located in the Great Smoky Mountains eighty-two miles west of the East Tennessee State University campus (www.nps.gov.grsm.prcoscg.htm). The park is a wonderful, activity-filled stop for any student wanting to get away for a few days.
The drive to Cosby passes by quickly because of all the interesting sites along the way. For example, Newport is home of the Thai Kitchen which has the best food I have ever tasted for only about $8.00 per person. The restaurant offers a variety of dishes such as chicken fried rice, spicy chicken basil fried rice, beef and broccoli and the excellent appetizers of egg rolls and crispy wontons. After stopping for dinner at the Thai Kitchen, you can travel 11 miles west to the Kyle Carver Orchard. The Kyle Carver Orchard was established in 1942 and spreads for over 75 acres. The orchard is known for its fresh cider and delicious apple pies that are fresh baked throughout the day (Heritage Tour 1). After eating your dessert at the Kyle Carver Orchard, you can travel the remaining seven miles to the park.
Cosby is nestled in a prime spot located thirty minutes from Douglas Lake, Gatlinburg, Pigeon Forge, and Dollywood. The park has a large picnic area that is known for its frequent visits by the bears that love to snack on the tourists' picnic lunches. The park also offers year-around camping with a special camping area designated for those people with horses. The park has 175 camping sites, so the camping areas are very plentiful for any student wanting to camp for a few days (www.nps.gov/grsm/prcoscg.htm).
Personally, my favorite things about the park are its hiking trails, the Low Gap and Appalachian Trails. The Low Gap hiking trail passes through the freezing Cosby Creek and continues along a beautiful scenic path. The paths are for hikers of any age because of their moderate trail grade. The paths host a variety of unusual flora and fauna including deer, snakes, and bears. In fact, I have never been on the trail without seeing a snake slithering along its path swimming in the creek.
My favorite attraction along the Low Gap Trail is the natural spring that is piped down from the mountains. Many tourists carry cups along this trail, so they can drink the fresh water bubbling directly from the earth (Heritage Tour 1). While walking the trails, a hiker needs to take along hiking boots, long pants, a raincoat, and a cup. These items are necessary for any hiker's protection and comfort in the wilderness.
After finishing the hike, campers can return to their campsite where they can roast marshmallows and enjoy the animal sounds of the surrounding forest. I would only plan to camp for a few days because of the poor conditions of the outdated restrooms. These restrooms do not have showers, electricity, flushable toilets, or any other modern day conveniences, but the beautiful foliage, hiking, and rafting still make Cosby a worthwhile site to spend a weekend.
After having a good night's sleep, a camper can wake up and put on their bathing suit and get ready for an adventure. The campers' adventure begins by walking down to the Cosby Creek to an area known as the Night Hole for its ice cold water that the sun supposedly never shines upon. Here, the water is about 12 feet deep and the pools make a great place for rock jumping. Each warm day in Cosby, you can find several groups of tourist waiting their turn to jump off the rock of their choice into the freezing water. The water is a thrilling shock after the long, hot hike to the pools. While rock jumping, a tourist needs to bring along an old pair of shoes because the rocks are sharp along the bottom of the creek bed, but this small discomfort is definitely worth the thrill. Next, a tourist should continue their adventure by making a stop at the Pigeon River Rafting Company located sixteen miles east of the park. The Pigeon River Rafting Company is a new company recently established in 1998. Here, a tourist can enjoy a three-mile rafting trip with several exciting class three and four rapids. For the more inexperienced rafter, the company provides a lazy river ride for children and the elderly where very little paddling is involved. Prices range from $15 to $40 depending on the group number and type of trip taken .
Cosby is an ideal travel location for any student wanting to escape the pressures of college for a weekend. The trip is not very expensive and has various activities such as swimming, camping, and hiking that any student would enjoy.
Is It Right? (Argumentative Essay)
Capital punishment is the execution of a person by judicial process as a punishment.Long years ago,this punishment was not debated andı t was accepted by people like dogmatic belief or rituel.However;ın two era,it has been opened into discussion.Nowadays,it is a controversial issue that people argue.Also.there are many people who are advocates of capital punishment like people who are against capital punishment.If you ask me,I am absolutely against deat penalthy.If you wonder why?
Death penalthy is punishment but not deterrent.The guilty person has been executed for years but there is no deterrent effect.For example:In U.S.A capital punishment is used but according to the a research the highest crime rate is in U.S.A.
Capital punishment or death penalthy is a punishment way that is very barbaric and horrifying.The guilty person is hanged in front of public or he is executed with nonhumanistic way. The guilty’s family has never recovered and everybody is affected that event.
Some supporter of capital punishment claim that people who commit a great crime like murder,rape deserve death penalthy.However;they forget that capital punishment is the esay solution or easy way for them.Life prison is more effective than death penalthy.If they want that they must undergo an extensive amount of pain,life prison is too painful to put up with.
To sum up,death penalty is a revenge that reinforced towards guilty people. If we reinforce this punishment,there is no difference between us and guilty people.In addition e
verybody makes a error and everybody deserves once more chance...
Death penalthy is punishment but not deterrent.The guilty person has been executed for years but there is no deterrent effect.For example:In U.S.A capital punishment is used but according to the a research the highest crime rate is in U.S.A.
Capital punishment or death penalthy is a punishment way that is very barbaric and horrifying.The guilty person is hanged in front of public or he is executed with nonhumanistic way. The guilty’s family has never recovered and everybody is affected that event.
Some supporter of capital punishment claim that people who commit a great crime like murder,rape deserve death penalthy.However;they forget that capital punishment is the esay solution or easy way for them.Life prison is more effective than death penalthy.If they want that they must undergo an extensive amount of pain,life prison is too painful to put up with.
To sum up,death penalty is a revenge that reinforced towards guilty people. If we reinforce this punishment,there is no difference between us and guilty people.In addition e
verybody makes a error and everybody deserves once more chance...
Thursday, 18 March 2010
THE REASONS OF THE COMMITING CRİME(cause and effect essay)
Nowadays,the crime rate is increasing rapidly all over the world.The highest crime rate is in America,after America Turkey and Iraq are in line.The lowest crime rate is in Japan.The world,including our country is not safe anymore to live in a peace because of the crimes which are committed in every minute by people from child to young.People are stealing, killing and all everythıng even do not come the mınd.However; Have you ever thought that why people commit a crime?There are some reasons behind this act.
First,according to scientist especıally DNA engıneer,human have some gene whıch carry the crıme or other disorders.Not everybody,some have these genes from the birth and the gene which is not good leads people to commıt a crime. The idea is new but ıt has been accepted..
The second reason is atmosphere or community whıch people lıve in .Everybody doesnt have good opportunıty to live in a beautıful place and among the decent and qualıty people.Socıal statue is dıfferent from one person to other.Some people are very rıch in contrast some people are so poor that they have dıffıculty in fındıng only one bread so they have to commıt a crıme.May be,they have a famıly and they are unemployed.There is no alternatıve way to do thats why person can steal or do the ıllegal busıness.That is a reason.In japan, people are on wellfare but in developing countrıes or America whıch is consist of varıous natıon people are trying to get wellfare.This show us there is a relatıon between crıme and socıal statue or money.
There are some reasons like that for example famıly,educatıon or physıcologıc problems ın addıtıon pleasure from the crıme.All can cause commiting a crime.In my opinion every person has to have meanıngful reason for commıttıng a crıme.It is nonsense to commıt a crıme ın vain..
First,according to scientist especıally DNA engıneer,human have some gene whıch carry the crıme or other disorders.Not everybody,some have these genes from the birth and the gene which is not good leads people to commıt a crime. The idea is new but ıt has been accepted..
The second reason is atmosphere or community whıch people lıve in .Everybody doesnt have good opportunıty to live in a beautıful place and among the decent and qualıty people.Socıal statue is dıfferent from one person to other.Some people are very rıch in contrast some people are so poor that they have dıffıculty in fındıng only one bread so they have to commıt a crıme.May be,they have a famıly and they are unemployed.There is no alternatıve way to do thats why person can steal or do the ıllegal busıness.That is a reason.In japan, people are on wellfare but in developing countrıes or America whıch is consist of varıous natıon people are trying to get wellfare.This show us there is a relatıon between crıme and socıal statue or money.
There are some reasons like that for example famıly,educatıon or physıcologıc problems ın addıtıon pleasure from the crıme.All can cause commiting a crime.In my opinion every person has to have meanıngful reason for commıttıng a crıme.It is nonsense to commıt a crıme ın vain..
MY MAGICAL PLACE(descriptive essay)
When summer comes,I always go my hometown,named Bahce in Osmaniye with my family.Since my childhood,I have always loved this town and I have always looked forward to going there .According to me,It is the purest place I have ever seen.There are not many buildings and fabrics,ıt remains ıts nature and also ıt protects ıtself from human beings. Bahce is a hidden heaven with clear air and heavy forest.It is very green as if ıt is painted with a green colour.Besides that,there are many river from little to big and every river has a little and wooden bridge which is made by human hands.Once a time,I took my photo in one of the bridges which is near my house.
There are some fish farm where fısh are fed and sold,especıally trout,in Bahce.It is very popular habit on the grounds that some people often come there for a fish farm as a tourist or visitor to see the fısh in their habitat and eat the fısh whose taste are delicious and marvellous with specıal salad which is prepared specıal sauce.Bahce is also famous for ıts pure water and there is no lime in them furthermore,some water supplıes are sold all over Turkey for instance,Bahcepınar water is the number one in the Mediterrian region and this water’s fabric is in Bekdemir of Bahce.
Bahce’s nature is never destroyed.even there is a mill which has been kept alive for years.There are some farmer and local community who go there for their business .It has old houses whıch were built along time ago from the wooden or stone.There is few people who live in these old houses.Some people who live there have some cows and sheep, some of people cultıvate wheat and corn.They go on their life with them.
Briefly,Bahce is such a magıcal place that ıt fascınates you immediately with both nature and people.In winter months,I miss there very much,I advise you to go and see there.After that,you will understand ıt is unbelievable..
Thursday, 4 March 2010
DO YOU KNOW HOW TURKISH CULTURE İS?( descriptive essay 2)
In spite of the fact that There have been many natıons on earth since the beginning of the humanity,Turkısh is the most unforgettable nation during history with leaders,wars and the most important one is their magical life style whıch fascınates everybody from everywhere.Do you know how Turkısh culture and tradıtıon? They have magnıfıcent custom and ıt is really unbelievable..
They have colourful custom lıke a flower,ın every leaves of thıs flower there are hidden so many thıngs that you hardly can imagıne that world without knowing and seeing.First, Turkey has very rich folkloric traditions which have been kept alive for centuries due to the charestristic of Turkish people.
Each region has its charestristic dance with particular costumes,rhythms and ınstruments.For example "kaşık oyunu"played with spoons is performed in from Konya to Silifke.
Turkey has some figures which are loved by Turkish people very much and every Turkish people from old to young know these figures. Nasreddin Hodja is one of the best known figure who has very intelligent and laughing his stories begin "one day,hodja..."
The other wellknown charesteric figure of Turkish people;Mevlana Celaleddin Rumi who loves everybody without discriminating one person from other he has so universal opinions that these opinions spread everywhere and still spreading.
Turkısh kıtchen İS also so various that you can not decide which meal is the most delicious. Every region has special meals. for example: In the east of Turkey,Urfa, Antep, Maras are very famous for their kind of meals.Some of them are kebab, içli köfte, güvec or kapama. When you taste one of these meals, you can want some more.
The other feature is hospitability of Turkish people. Guests are very important in Turkish culture. They are treated very tactfully. They care about the meal, the bed, and the comfort of the guest .
Lıke that there are many things that can be mentioned about. However, ıt is not decreased by telling. You certainly should see and know The turkish culture. It is worth..
They have colourful custom lıke a flower,ın every leaves of thıs flower there are hidden so many thıngs that you hardly can imagıne that world without knowing and seeing.First, Turkey has very rich folkloric traditions which have been kept alive for centuries due to the charestristic of Turkish people.
Each region has its charestristic dance with particular costumes,rhythms and ınstruments.For example "kaşık oyunu"played with spoons is performed in from Konya to Silifke.
Turkey has some figures which are loved by Turkish people very much and every Turkish people from old to young know these figures. Nasreddin Hodja is one of the best known figure who has very intelligent and laughing his stories begin "one day,hodja..."
The other wellknown charesteric figure of Turkish people;Mevlana Celaleddin Rumi who loves everybody without discriminating one person from other he has so universal opinions that these opinions spread everywhere and still spreading.
Turkısh kıtchen İS also so various that you can not decide which meal is the most delicious. Every region has special meals. for example: In the east of Turkey,Urfa, Antep, Maras are very famous for their kind of meals.Some of them are kebab, içli köfte, güvec or kapama. When you taste one of these meals, you can want some more.
The other feature is hospitability of Turkish people. Guests are very important in Turkish culture. They are treated very tactfully. They care about the meal, the bed, and the comfort of the guest .
Lıke that there are many things that can be mentioned about. However, ıt is not decreased by telling. You certainly should see and know The turkish culture. It is worth..
ARE YOU SURE TO MARRY SOMEONE FROM OTHER CULTURE?( OPINION ESSAY)
Nowadays,ıt is a popular event to marry someone from dıfferent natıon.This habit is becoming common in Turkey.In the past,people approached this task negatıvely.However;the world is changing and opinions are also changing.Once time we did not belive Galileo who came up with a opınıon that the world was turnıng.However ;now,we are not surprısed when ıt is said that a holiday in the moon will come to real.Like that,marrying someone from another culture doesnt make us feel peculiar.We feel that it is a usual experience. According to me,it is exactly wrong owing to the some reasons..
Even when you go abroad as a tourıst, everythıng is strange to you, habit of eating and talking, custom of their life,all things..You think that you can marry someone from another culture which includes these differencies.The man whom you are marrying,from other culture,has been grow up ın thıs culture and also his character is shaped by according to his tradition and his nation's life-style.No matter what he does,he is certainly influenced by his culture.According to place where he lives,he sits,talks,eats and the most important is that he thinks.In this point,I can say that manny marriages are ending up firstly because of opposite ideas in the world.Couples think and act differently from each other.If it is so,debating and discussing will be inevitable and soon, the divorce will also be indispensable ..
There are many reasons like that for example language.You learn that his language but you do not learn and understand what he means exactly everytime.Another reason is religious.The man may be christian and you may be a muslim.In the first times,both are very kind and tactful.In the house, there is a democratic atmosphere but later,one of coupless(husband or wife) trys to be loved his or her own religion. Another reason is national identity..You are Turkish and your husband is a German. Even in a match between these countrıes, a debate can break out..
Some supporter of this idea that marrying someone from another culture is right, think that all these problems can be solved ıf couples love eachother but love is limited and the most important thing is logic..
Briefly marrying is difficult experience and marriying someone from different culture or nation is more difficult than the usual marrıages. You thınk that thousand times before such kind of marriages.. You should not thınk only one perspective.,you should act according to both your heart and your logic...
Even when you go abroad as a tourıst, everythıng is strange to you, habit of eating and talking, custom of their life,all things..You think that you can marry someone from another culture which includes these differencies.The man whom you are marrying,from other culture,has been grow up ın thıs culture and also his character is shaped by according to his tradition and his nation's life-style.No matter what he does,he is certainly influenced by his culture.According to place where he lives,he sits,talks,eats and the most important is that he thinks.In this point,I can say that manny marriages are ending up firstly because of opposite ideas in the world.Couples think and act differently from each other.If it is so,debating and discussing will be inevitable and soon, the divorce will also be indispensable ..
There are many reasons like that for example language.You learn that his language but you do not learn and understand what he means exactly everytime.Another reason is religious.The man may be christian and you may be a muslim.In the first times,both are very kind and tactful.In the house, there is a democratic atmosphere but later,one of coupless(husband or wife) trys to be loved his or her own religion. Another reason is national identity..You are Turkish and your husband is a German. Even in a match between these countrıes, a debate can break out..
Some supporter of this idea that marrying someone from another culture is right, think that all these problems can be solved ıf couples love eachother but love is limited and the most important thing is logic..
Briefly marrying is difficult experience and marriying someone from different culture or nation is more difficult than the usual marrıages. You thınk that thousand times before such kind of marriages.. You should not thınk only one perspective.,you should act according to both your heart and your logic...
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